Saturday, March 1, 2008

Mom as Alan Lomax's Office Manager

Sylvia sent the following as a comment on the last post I made, which was about mom's work with Alan Lomax. As with everything Sylvia sends me, it not only gives me new insights to mom's life, but is easily identifiable as Sylvia's (she doesn't always sign her messages. Why should she? She knows I can tell. That's confidence that I envy and admire).

Here's what she said:
"From my vantage point, Linge was extremely important in Alan Lomax’s work. She was the office manager on his project to study correlation between cultural markers and music. For example, he was studying whether there is there a correlation between cultures with traits of violence or peacefulness, hunting gathering or agricultural traditions and the music of those groups. Lomax had thousands of recordings of music from across the globe and he had a musicologist (maybe two) and an ethnologist coding musical and cultural characteristics, respectively, of these groups. The coding was then keypunched and input to a computer which performed correlations. You can imagine the stage of computing in those days! Linge performed all of the grind work and kept the office running smoothly.

"She was very young but had to have a great deal of poise and organization to do this. Alan and the other employees were more of the artiste personalities and Linge was the calming and prodding voice of efficiency and practicality. Alan was very well known and counted all of the famous folk artists among his friends, requiring Linge to deal with these celebrities, too. She was not stodgy or pious in her methods of herding these cats, though. She was cajoling and practical. And they all seemed to respect her, while holding obviously warm feelings toward her. I think this dual ability to keep people on track with humor and grace probably marked all of her career ventures.

"One example I particularly like reflects her ability to appease Alan’s quirks. Alan had a notion that the office should be open at a puritanically early hour. Eight or eight thirty, I think. No one ever arrived and no work ever started until after 10 am. But Alan would wake up at 8:00 or 8:30, telephone the office to insure someone was there attending to business, and, I imagine, roll over and go back to sleep. Linge would wake up in our apartment 20 minutes before the call, shove her clothes and make-up into a bag, and take off like a rocket for the office to answer the telephone when Alan called. When she had reassured him by crisply answering his early morning call, she would leisurely take a shower, put on make up, and dress. Then she would go down stairs to a deli for coffee and breakfast. She would be back upstairs and working by the time Alan and the others arrived. No one was ever the wiser."

Thursday, February 28, 2008

Alan Lomax thanks Linda Oldham

OK. I admit it: I was trawling the "net," (or as W calls it, the Innerwebs), in search of references to mom, publications of hers, anything. It was, and apparently still is, better to prepare oneself when dealing with this woman; I found a mention of her in a Google Books entry for Alan Lomax's book Folk Song Style and Culture (click here). It isn't much, but the book was published in 1968, when mom was 24. Mom is mentioned in the acknowledgments, in which Mr. Lomax says "Linda Oldham saw the data through the punching stage."

For more info on Alan Lomax, see here.
For mom's resume, see here.
For stories about mom and Alan Lomax, click here and here.

Wednesday, February 27, 2008

A Well-envowelled Woman

Yesterday, in abject boredom, I Googled my name. And then I Googled Mom's. On the second turn, I found myself looking at excerpts from this blog at a web address I didn't recognize. When I clicked on the link (http://www.isthisyour.name/linda_oldham.htm), I found that I was at one of those "gee whiz" websites that do funny things to your name. This one apparently trawled the internet for names, and had found this blog, so it had my name and mom's (yours, if it was mentioned in this blog, is also there somewhere, I think). The site was funny enough with it's comment's on mom's name that I decided to use it for this entry. The following are excerpted directly from the website, and are all comments on the name Linda Oldham:

Etymology: Forename: Origin: Spanish
Meaning: Pretty One

36% of the letters are vowels. Of one million first and last names we looked at, 47.7% have a higher vowel make-up. This means Linda is averagely envoweled.

Backwards, it is Adnil Mahdlo... nice ring to it, huh?

In Pig Latin, it is Indalay Oldhamway.

In ASCII binary it is 01001100 01101001 01101110 01100100 01100001 00100000 01001111 01101100 01100100 01101000 01100001 01101101

Linda Oldham, based on your name and a process known to only three people on the planet, we can tell you that your Power Animal is the Naked Mole-rat.

Your 'Numerology' number is 3. If it wasn't bulls**t, it would mean that you are enthusiastic, creative, optimistic, and fun-loving. You seek self-expression through words or the arts, and enjoy learning through life experiences.

According to the US Census Bureau, 1.035% of US residents have the first name 'Linda' and 0.0053% have the surname 'Oldham'. The US has around 300 million residents, so we guesstimate there are 165 Linda Oldhams.*

* Not anymore. Sigh.

Tuesday, February 26, 2008

More From Susan

Susan Attermeier wrote back to me today. She said:

Jake-

I'm starting to dig into my memory bank! I think I'll just email you as things come back. But here's one thing - Linda's no-boundries cosmic generosity. One of my favorite possessions is a black scarf from the belly-dancers' warehouse in Cairo. As you know Linda was a scarf person, and I am too. She had regaled me with the description of a pink building filled with belly-dancer supplies and had several items she'd gotten there. On her next trip she brought back a scarf for me. It is the most sensuous thing. It not only falls around my shoulders but caresses them. It is bordered with shiny black bangle bead fringe so the scarf stays put however you put it and can be worn in lots of different ways. I put it on for special events and let people try it on. They always get this "oh my god" look on their face when they feel it!

To me it is symbolic of her.

More later

Susan

Oh yes- she was the only person I know who could grow hollyhocks around here.
I referred Susan to the story about El-Hagg Mahmoud. El-Hagg Mahmoud owns the "belly-dancers' warehouse" that the scarf came from. Click here for the story.

Monday, February 25, 2008

Susan Attermeier

Susan Attermeier sent me an email tonight. Susan is the mother of Julia, who went to school with Sarah:

Jake-
I just found out last night that Linda had passed away. I was shocked and saddened. Linda was a friend form the first time we saw each other at a PTA spagetti dinner at Grady Brown Elementary. My daughter Julia and Sara were already friends. But when I saw Linda with her wild hair and scarf I went over and said hi. Just couldn't relate to all those perky young moms!! The chemistry was immediate. I spent many happy hours in her company. She was always full of unexpected conversation, always cooking up a storm. The recipe she gave me for Bolognese sauce is now legendary among my friends. Imagine three grown men lying on the floor with smiles on their faces after eating too much of it. The women of course were politely seated on the couch but bent over and clutching their stomachs.
In recent years I didn't see her much - Called several times but she didn't respond. I have your blog and will explore it but I wnated to send you a personal message.
Sara emailed Julia about her mom - that's how I knew. If I can figure out how to leave messages on the blog I will do that.
I will always remember Linda's laugh and twinkly eyes.
Susan Attermeier
Susan, this is a wonderful email. Thank you. The sad part is that this confirms that there are others out there who ought to be told who have not yet been informed that mom died. I wish this was all behind us all.

Sunday, February 24, 2008

Mom and Sarah in 1987

This photograph must have been taken around the time Sarah was one year old, so mom would have been 43.



Sarah: I scanned this one a little larger than usual, in case you want a larger print.