Tuesday, April 22, 2008

Hare Today, Goon Tomorrow

Little Bunny Foo Foo
Hopping through the forest
Scoopin' up the field mice
Bop 'em on the head!
Then the Good Fairy came and said:
'Little Bunny Foo Foo
I don't wanna see you
Scoopin' up the field mice
Bop 'em on the head!
I'll give you 3 chances,
And if you don't behave, I'll turn you into a goon.

The moral of the story is "Hare today, goon tomorrow."

That was one of the stories mom often told her kids. I loved it.

Ali received a bunch of books from Janet today. One of them was "There was an old lady who swallowed a fly," Another of mom's stories.

Nostalgia.

Saturday, April 12, 2008

Mom's TV Shows

When thinking about mom, one rarely thinks about the television shows she liked. This is, in part, because she was not terribly "in to" television. She did have some exceptions, however, and it is quite likely that you will be surprised at one or two of them:

- M.A.S.H.
- The Love Boat
- Mystery Movie (Especially Columbo and McMillan and Wife)
- Dallas
- Simon and Simon
- House

I know there are more, but these are the ones that come to mind now. What set me off on this train of thought is hulu.com, which airs episodes of select TV shows for free and, more importantly, legally. I am now watching the pilot episode of Simon and Simon on Hulu.

Friday, April 11, 2008

Her Laugh

I've been dreaming about mom a lot lately. I am sorry to say that the dreams are usually unpleasant. They mostly deal with events that never really occurred during her final days. Perhaps this is a natural part of grief, but I don't know.

She keeps occurring to me at the oddest times. A minute ago I could have sworn that I heard her laugh emanating from downstairs. For a second or two the familiar throaty laughter washed over me with a wonderful sense of reassurance. Then it passed, leaving behind a deep melancholy caused by the sudden certainty that I will never hear that laugh again; we have photographs of what she looked like, and we have stories about her, but we will never again hear her laughter, or the sound of her voice on the phone when she said "Hi, honey."

Man, oh, man.

Thursday, April 10, 2008

Mom's Birthday 1986



This, if I recall correctly, was a belated birthday party for Mom, days after Sarah was born. Mom's birthday was the 10th of June, and Sarah was born on the 17th, so this is probably at some point during the fourth week of June, 1996.

From left to right: Osman, Aziza, Mom, Sarah, and Me. Janet might recognize the golden picture frame by the fish-bowl-turned-flower-vase on the mantle. This was at our second apartment at 159 26th July St., Zamalek.

Once I get some rest, I'll be posting a lot more pictures, and I'll be back to the daily post. Watch this space.

Monday, April 7, 2008

Green Tomatoes and Wild Pumpkins

When we lived at 302 Oak Avenue ( Scott Simmons' house; the numbers on the street have changed, but the house is still there) in Carrboro, mom always had something going in her garden. I remember that I, a four-year-old tyke at the time, would pick her tomatoes while they were still green, and eat them off the vine.

Around back, she had a compost heap. She explained that the trash would eventually "cook" into food for the plants. I thought that was wonderful. It probably had a lot to do with how she told the story.

Mom was not always successful with her garden. For one thing, her zucchini, cucumbers, and okra were enormous (I was very proud. I wouldn't eat them, but I was proud).

She told me a story later about what I think must have been our two-week trip to Florida (Disney World. Yay!) She had apparently left the pumpkins untended for those two weeks, and they had spread arms everywhere; into the neighbors' yards, into the streets...everywhere. To hear mom tell it, the Giant Pumpkin Monster took over the neighborhood in a sinister takeover.

She was really good at most things she tried her hand at, and those she failed at..well, she told good stories about them, with grand flair and charm.

Jeez. Here come the waterworks. I though I was over this.

Good night.

Friday, April 4, 2008

When mom put me in jail

When I was four or five, mom took me to the police station. It is possible that this is something that I had asked her to do for me. While there, the officers showed us around the station, including putting me into one of the cells and closing (but not locking) the door. The cell contained two bunks that were basically shelves attached to the wall, and a toilet in between. I thought it was great, but I didn't like the idea of using the toilet without a door.

I am considering doing the same for Ali. Maybe this weekend.

Thursday, April 3, 2008

My Apologies

I am getting worse at maintaining this. My apologies to all. In part, it is because I am running out of good stories that are suitable for the open internet. I have stories that are unsuitable because they involve others in a manner that would cause unhappiness, anger, or lawsuits. I have others that cannot be told here because they are too personal. I have ones that would likely only men something to me.

That said, I still have stories that would work here, and God knows I have photographs that could keep this thing running for years.

Right now, though, my main problem is that I am too busy. I have too much on my plate. I will continue to update the blog but, for now, it cannot be at the same original pace.

One thing that can help is if you all share your stories. I need your help. Sylvia, you have never needed this kind of push, and I appreciate your help more than you know. Everybody else, get crackin'.